✿Si Gadis Manis✿

assalamualaikum.

hye, hello everyone.

Kon'nichiwa.

annyeonghaseyo..

^^,

well..

the purpose I'm writing today just about to share my opinion regarding to the question of one of my friends.

let us called that person "D"

D asked me..

"What and how should i do to forget him/her? He/She already married!"

hmm...

that question is a bit tough for me..

but i'm try my best to calm you,my dear..

to makes you redha..

to makes you cheer up.

because i'm believe its hard right?

pertama2 sekali, bersyukurlah..

for what?

bersyukur kerana ALLAH sangat baik terhadap kita.

ALLAH sangat sayangkan kita.

ALLAH sangat rindukan kita.

why i'm saying that?

because..

ALLAH baik sangat sebab masih beri kita berbagai2 nikmat yang tak terbilang dek jari.

♥nikmat Islam♥nikmat iman♥nikmat nyawa♥nikmat kesihatan♥nikmat makan♥nikmat tidur♥nikmat tenaga♥nikmat pancaindera♥nikmat aman damai♥nikmat bahagia♥nikmat berperasaan♥nikmat talent♥dll

so bersyukurlah..

kita jangan mudah putus asa.

ALLAH uji sikit, dah rebah.

ALLAH beri masalah sikit, dah lemah.

ALLAH duga sikit, dah mengalah.

that really not a tough and good and soleh and wonderful muslimin/muslimat.

you have to face it.

although its hard.

its painful.

its makes you sick!

face it with a smile on your face :)

and ALLAH do say in Al-Quran in surah Ar-Rahman..

Maka yang mana satu di antara nikmat-nikmat Tuhan kamu, yang kamu hendak dustakan (wahai umat manusia dan jin)?

nikmat mana yang kamu nak dustakan?

which one?

sangat sombongkah kita sampai tidak bersyukur?

asyik mengeluh..

mengapa begitu? kenapa begini?

why why and why not that way?

bukankah dengan persoalan2 ini menunjukkan kita tidak bersyukur?

kita tamak.

kita nak hidup kita sempurna.

always get what we want.

we do what we want to do.

this is manusia.

not perfect :)

as well as mine..

but friends..

we do have choices.

either want to be a good or bad muslim?

either grateful or sigh?

either to forget or remember?

all this is in your hands.

you have the right to choose which is the best decision..

maka..

kawan yang tasnim kasihi..

usah bersedih..

la tahzan/tahzani..

bersyukurlah..

sesungguhnya kita diberi nikmat untuk merasai kewujudan perasaan tu...

perasaan menyayangi.

perasaan merindui.

perasaan disakiti.

bukankah kita akan lebih dekat pada DIA?

manusia hanya akan ingat pada ALLAH bila dalam kesusahan sahaja..

dan ketahuilah..

DIA sangat suka kita mengadu padanya..

kita manusia biasa ni sering lupa padaNYA.

mungkin ini salah satu cara untuk DIA menarik kita kembali kpdNYA..

sentiasa ingatkan diri..

talk to yourself that "ALLAH loves me."

that why He wanna to give the best spouse that suit to me.

He knows what the best for you people.

Just do believe in Him.

Always remind in yourself this quote..

i do remember one ayat in Al-Quran that is full of the hidden meaning..

try to think and do relate to our life about what ALLAH try to tell you from this ayat..

Kamu diwajibkan berperang (untuk menentang pencerobohan), sedang peperangan itu ialah perkara yang kamu benci dan boleh jadi kamu benci kepada sesuatu padahal ia baik bagi kamu, dan boleh jadi kamu suka kepada sesuatu padahal ia buruk bagi kamu. Dan (ingatlah), Allah jualah Yang Mengetahui (semuanya itu), sedang kamu tidak mengetahuinya. (Surah Al-Baqarah : 216)

so my dearest friends..

tentang "bini tak jadi" or "laki tak jadi" ni..

tak perlulah kita terlalu memikirkannya..

ia membuatkan kita lebih lemah.

lesu.

tak bermaya.

yakinlah dengan pilihan ALLAH..

ALLAH lebih tahu yang mana paling sesuai untuk kita..

tak perlulah menoleh ke belakang terlalu lama..

pandang ke hadapan and keep move on..

ALLAH doesn't want you weak just because that small matter..

ALLAH do want you to become stronger person than previously..

ALLAH wanna you to rely on HIM..

believe HIM..

What you should do to forget that person that is not belong to you?

simpanlah barang2 yang boleh mengingatkan kamu kepadanya di tempat yang tak akan kamu buka lagi selepas ini..
set your minds to forget him/her
do not contact with him/her anymore because he/she already has wife/husband.not asking you to putuskan hubungan persahabatan..its just you know your limit if you wanna to keep contact..
cepat2 istighfar if you do remember or miss him/her. Astagfirullah..
sibukkan diri anda dengan tugasan2 or kerja or hobi. try avoid to keep layan perasaan sensorang.
do have a discussion with your best friends. listen to their opinions and advises. they maybe have experiences or knowledge about that matter.
for me, if you have the capability to get married, so you do.. bercinta dengan yang halal kan lebih sweet.. if there is a person next to you every seconds, then it is easier for you to forget that person.. tapi niat tu kena betul. once you step in marriage, you are responsible to your spouse.. do your best in the baitulmuslim that you have build.. insyaALLAH, ALLAH will ease everything for you...i do believe it.
and last but not least, remember... you belong to ALLAH.. all humans in this world belong to Him.. He hold your heart and others' heart.. ask Him to ease you to forget that person..and do pray for your future wife/husband..start from now.not tomorrow.not after you have prepared yourself to get married.but NOW ! and do remember you also have to improve yourself to become more soleh/solehah person. You can do it people! :)

tu je laa yang tasnim boleh kongsikan..

bila hal yang berkaitan dengan hati ni...

ia sangat rumit.

i know it..

but at least you have the strength and courage to began to move..

i believe you are great, fantastic,fabulous,superb and so on...

so, you can do it !

This picture below very touches my heart..

so do understand and appreciate it..